mtest: delay creation of asyncio lock until event loop exists

In https://bugs.python.org/issue42392 this stopped implicitly creating
an event loop if none exists. We created it before running _run_tests(),
so it would auto-create an event loop and set the default, which means
we cannot create one explicitly on our own schedule or we end up with
two of them.

Delay this until we actually start the logger. This happens inside the
actual testsuite loop, so it finds the running loop and doesn't create a
new one, even on python <3.10.

mesonbuild/mtest.py

@@ -502,7 +502,9 @@ class ConsoleLogger(TestLogger):
         self.progress_task = None          # type: T.Optional[asyncio.Future]
         self.max_left_width = 0            # type: int
         self.stop = False
-        self.update = asyncio.Event()
+        # TODO: before 3.10 this cannot be created immediately, because
+        # it will create a new event loop
+        self.update: asyncio.Event
         self.should_erase_line = ''
         self.test_count = 0
         self.started_tests = 0
@@ -600,6 +602,7 @@ class ConsoleLogger(TestLogger):
                 self.emit_progress(harness)
             self.flush()
 
+        self.update = asyncio.Event()
         self.test_count = harness.test_count
         self.cols = max(self.cols, harness.max_left_width + 30)