on_hdr() checks if a void-return function pointer is null before jumping to it.
If it is null, it returns an error; else it executes that function and returns
success.
This change converts the void-returning function to one that returns a
grpc_error* and thus saves a branch in on_hdr() (since we're branching once by
following the function pointer anyways, we're effectively coalescing these two
branches).