[Tests] Fix build scripts for windows portability (#36211)

Fixes windows portability CI test - https://fusion2.corp.google.com/invocations/41fdd087-9cdc-4b6b-bf47-c4f70b978830/targets

Changes -
* Install files in a `cmake/install` directory instead of system directory.
* Remove unnecessary targets built and installed from opentelemetry (benchmarking and etw exporter).

Ref b/332425005

Closes #36211

COPYBARA_INTEGRATE_REVIEW=https://github.com/grpc/grpc/pull/36211 from yashykt:OTelPluginTestCIFixes be703db302
PiperOrigin-RevId: 621243515

tools/run_tests/helper_scripts/build_cxx.bat

@@ -15,6 +15,11 @@
 setlocal
 
 cd /d %~dp0\..\..\..
+mkdir cmake
+cd cmake
+mkdir install
+cd ..
+set "INSTALL_PATH=%~dp0\cmake\install"
 
 If "%GRPC_BUILD_ACTIVATE_VS_TOOLS%" == "2019" (
   @rem set cl.exe build environment to build with VS2019 tooling
@@ -51,7 +56,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   cd third_party/abseil-cpp
   mkdir build
   cd build
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DABSL_BUILD_TESTING=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" %* ..  || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DABSL_BUILD_TESTING=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* ..  || goto :error
   ninja -j%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% install || goto :error
 
   @rem Install opentelemetry-cpp since we only support "package" mode for opentelemetry at present.
@@ -59,7 +64,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   cd third_party/opentelemetry-cpp
   mkdir build
   cd build
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" %* ..  || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF -DWITH_BENCHMARK=OFF -DWITH_ETW=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* ..  || goto :error
   ninja -j%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% install || goto :error
 
   cd ../../..
@@ -69,7 +74,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   mkdir build
   cd build
 
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPCPP_OTEL_PLUGIN=ON -DgRPC_ABSL_PROVIDER=package -DgRPC_BUILD_TESTS=ON -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" %* ../.. || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -DCMAKE_C_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DCMAKE_CXX_COMPILER="cl.exe" -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPCPP_OTEL_PLUGIN=ON -DgRPC_ABSL_PROVIDER=package -DgRPC_BUILD_TESTS=ON -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="%MSBUILD_CONFIG%" -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* ../.. || goto :error
 
   ninja -j%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% buildtests_%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_CXX_LANGUAGE_SUFFIX% || goto :error
 
@@ -80,7 +85,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   cd third_party/abseil-cpp
   mkdir build
   cd build
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DABSL_BUILD_TESTING=OFF .. || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DABSL_BUILD_TESTING=OFF -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* .. || goto :error
   cmake --build . --target install || goto :error
 
   @rem Install opentelemetry-cpp since we only support "package" mode for opentelemetry at present.
@@ -88,7 +93,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   cd third_party/opentelemetry-cpp
   mkdir build
   cd build
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF .. || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF -DWITH_BENCHMARK=OFF -DWITH_ETW=OFF -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* .. || goto :error
   cmake --build . --target install -j%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% || goto :error
 
   cd ../../..
@@ -97,7 +102,7 @@ If "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" == "Ninja" (
   mkdir build
   cd build
 
-  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPCPP_OTEL_PLUGIN=ON -DgRPC_ABSL_PROVIDER=package -DgRPC_BUILD_TESTS=ON -DgRPC_BUILD_MSVC_MP_COUNT=%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% %* ../.. || goto :error
+  cmake -G "%GRPC_CMAKE_GENERATOR%" -A "%GRPC_CMAKE_ARCHITECTURE%" %CMAKE_SYSTEM_VERSION_ARG% -DCMAKE_VS_PLATFORM_TOOLSET_HOST_ARCHITECTURE=x64 -DgRPC_BUILD_GRPCPP_OTEL_PLUGIN=ON -DgRPC_ABSL_PROVIDER=package -DgRPC_BUILD_TESTS=ON -DgRPC_BUILD_MSVC_MP_COUNT=%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="%INSTALL_PATH%" %* ../.. || goto :error
 
   @rem GRPC_RUN_TESTS_CXX_LANGUAGE_SUFFIX will be set to either "c" or "cxx"
   cmake --build . --target buildtests_%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_CXX_LANGUAGE_SUFFIX% --config %MSBUILD_CONFIG% -j%GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS% || goto :error

tools/run_tests/helper_scripts/build_cxx.sh

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ cd ../../..
 cd third_party/opentelemetry-cpp
 mkdir build
 cd build
-cmake -DCMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=14 -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="${MSBUILD_CONFIG}" -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="${INSTALL_PATH}" "$@" ..
+cmake -DCMAKE_CXX_STANDARD=14 -DWITH_ABSEIL=ON -DBUILD_TESTING=OFF -DWITH_BENCHMARK=OFF -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE="${MSBUILD_CONFIG}" -DCMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX="${INSTALL_PATH}" "$@" ..
 make -j"${GRPC_RUN_TESTS_JOBS}" install
 
 cd ../../..