- add debug-only `WorkSerializer::IsRunningInWorkSerializer()` method
and use it in client_channel to verify that subchannels are destroyed in
the `WorkSerializer`
- note: this mechanism uses `std:🧵:id`, so I had to exclude
work_serializer.cc from the core_banned_constructs check
- fix `WorkSerializer::Run()` to unref the callback before releasing
ownership of the `WorkSerializer`, so that any refs captured by the
`std::function<>` will be released before releasing ownership
- fix the WRR timer callback to hop into the `WorkSerializer` to release
its ref to the picker, since that transitively releases refs to
subchannels
- fix subchannel connectivity state notifications to unref the watcher
inside the `WorkSerializer`, since the watcher often transitively holds
refs to subchannels